Leading Through the "In-Between": Navigating Transition Without Losing Trust

Every leader eventually faces it: that awkward space between what was and what will be. The old system is gone, but the new one isn't quite here yet. Your team is asking questions you don't have answers for. Anxiety is rising. Trust feels fragile.

You're in the "in-between."

Change management expert William Bridges calls it the neutral zone: the most critical phase of any transition. It's the gap between the ending of the old state and the beginning of the new one. And it's where trust is either strengthened or shattered.

If you're leading through uncertainty right now, this isn't just about managing logistics. It's about shepherding hearts. And that requires something deeper than a project plan.

The Reality of the Neutral Zone

Here's what makes the "in-between" so hard: nobody likes ambiguity. We want clarity. We want closure. We want to know when things will feel normal again.

But transition doesn't work that way.

Transitions naturally progress through denial, judgment, acceptance, and transformation. Your team isn't being difficult: they're being human. They need time to grieve what's ending while building hope for what's coming. And as a leader, your job isn't to rush past this phase. It's to create space for it.

The Apostle Paul understood this. In 2 Corinthians 5:17, he writes, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" But even Paul acknowledged the discomfort of transformation. In Romans 8:22, he describes creation "groaning" as it waits for redemption.

Groaning is part of the process.

Your team will groan. They'll push back. They'll ask why things can't stay the same. And that's okay. You don't have to fix their emotions: you just have to hold space for them while pointing them toward hope.

Communication: The Anchor of Trust

During transitions, people look to their leaders for clarity and candor. They want to know what's happening, when it's happening, and what it means for them personally.

If you go silent during the "in-between," your team will fill the void with fear.

Here's how to communicate well during transition:

1. Say it more than once. Deliver your message consistently across multiple formats: face-to-face conversations, team meetings, emails, and group chats. People process information differently, and repetition builds confidence. What feels redundant to you may be the first time someone truly hears it.

2. Be transparent about the "why." Help your team see why the change is necessary now. Don't just tell them what's changing: help them understand the problem you're trying to solve. When people grasp the rationale, they're more likely to lean in.

3. Acknowledge complexity. You don't have to pretend you have all the answers. Admitting, "This is hard, and we're learning as we go," doesn't undermine your leadership: it humanizes it. Jesus didn't promise His disciples a smooth journey. He promised His presence. That's what your team needs from you.

4. Listen without judgment. Create space for honest feedback. When someone voices a concern, resist the urge to defend or dismiss. Instead, ask, "Tell me more about that." Listening builds trust faster than any motivational speech ever could.

Build Trust Through Involvement

One of the fastest ways to erode trust during transition is to impose change on people instead of inviting them into it.

When employees understand how their work contributes to the vision: and when they have agency in shaping the transition: they move from passive recipients to active partners.

Here's how to involve your team:

Deploy internal advocates. Identify coaches or facilitators within your organization who can model the vision at the micro level. These internal leaders help mitigate fear, celebrate small wins, and create energy around the change. They also give you eyes and ears on the ground, so you know what's really happening.

Empower problem-solving. Instead of solving every problem yourself, invite your team to co-create solutions. Ask, "What obstacles are you facing, and what would help you overcome them?" When people contribute to the answers, they take ownership of the outcome.

Celebrate progress: big and small. Don't wait until the transition is complete to acknowledge wins. Celebrate the team member who adapted quickly. Recognize the department that embraced the new process. Small celebrations remind people that progress is happening, even when it doesn't feel like it.

Lead with Presence, Not Perfection

Proverbs 16:9 says, "In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps."

You can't control every variable in a transition. But you can control your presence.

Show up. Be visible. Check in with individuals, not just teams. Let your people see that you're steady, even when the situation isn't.

One of the most underrated leadership skills during transition is the ministry of showing up. Your physical or digital presence: especially when things are uncertain: signals that you're not abandoning ship. You're in it with them.

And when senior leadership is visibly aligned in supporting the change, it enables leaders at all levels to credibly advocate for it with their teams. Unity at the top creates permission for unity at every level.

Grace for the Groaning

If you're leading through a hard transition right now, hear this: you don't have to have it all figured out.

God doesn't call you to be perfect. He calls you to be faithful.

Faithful means showing up when you're tired. Faithful means listening when you'd rather defend. Faithful means holding space for your team's grief while pointing them toward hope.

The "in-between" is uncomfortable. But it's also sacred. It's where people learn that they can trust you: not because you have all the answers, but because you love them well while you figure it out together.

Jesus led His disciples through one of the hardest transitions imaginable: His death and resurrection. And in that "in-between": those three days when everything felt lost: He was preparing something new.

Your transition may not feel like resurrection right now. But that doesn't mean God isn't at work.

Take the Next Step

If you're navigating transition and need tools, encouragement, or a coaching conversation to help you lead with clarity and compassion, visit www.laynemcdonald.com. You'll find books, mentorship resources, and faith-driven leadership training designed to help you grow as a leader who loves well.

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You're not leading alone. And the "in-between" won't last forever.

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