Faith: Forgiveness in Family , What to Do When the People Who Raised You Hurt You Most Forgiving the people who raised you requires choosing to release the debt of their sin and entrusting justice to God, even when the pain remains deep and reconciliation is not yet possible. Family wounds are often the deepest because they occur in the places where we were meant to be most safe. To find healing, we must move beyond the myth that forgiveness means forgetting, instead embrac