Being the Spiritual Leader of Your Home

Written by: Layne McDonald, Ph.D.

"As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." – Joshua 24:15

There is no higher calling as a parent than to shepherd your family in faith. As spiritual leaders, we have the sacred privilege of guiding our children toward a life rooted in God’s love and truth. This role isn’t about perfection; it’s about intentionality, modeling a faith that inspires and transforms.

The Power of Leadership by ExampleAccording to Lifeway Research, 74% of children whose parents lead in faith remain active in church as adults. When faith is not just spoken but lived, it becomes a legacy—a foundation that carries into the next generation. Your leadership in Christ can shape the hearts of your children and plant seeds of faith that flourish for eternity.

Practical Steps to Lead Spiritually

1. Set a Family Vision - Create a family vision rooted in God’s Word. Declare, like Joshua, that your household will serve the Lord. Let this vision guide your daily decisions and priorities.
   

2. Commit to Church as a Family - Make church attendance a cornerstone of your family life. Worshiping, learning, and serving together reinforces the importance of faith in every aspect of life.
   

3. Share Your Faith Journey - Be open with your children about your walk with Christ—your struggles, victories, and the lessons God has taught you. This transparency shows them that faith is real, dynamic, and personal.
   

A Legacy of Faith

Being the spiritual leader of your home doesn’t mean having all the answers; it means pointing your family to the One who does. It’s about praying together, seeking God’s will, and showing your children what it means to trust Him in all things. Through your example, your family can experience the joy of serving the Lord and grow in faith together.

Because the greatest inheritance you can leave your children is a legacy of faith.