Study Guide: The Discipleship Blueprint - Chapter 2
- Dr. Layne McDonald
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"The things which you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, entrust these to faithful people who will be able to teach others also." : 2 Timothy 2:2 (NASB)
Introduction: The Relational Engine of the Kingdom
In the first chapter of The Discipleship Blueprint, we established that the Great Commission is not a suggestion: it is the central mandate of the Church. However, moving from "knowing" the command to "living" the command requires a bridge. That bridge is mentorship.
Mentorship is the relational engine of the Kingdom of God. It is the process by which the life of Christ in one person is poured into the life of another. But before we look at the methods of mentoring, we must examine the heart of the mentor. If the heart is not right, the method will be mechanical. If the heart is not Spirit-led, the results will be temporary. This study guide is designed to help you and your small group explore the biblical DNA of a mentor’s heart, drawing from the lives of Paul, Timothy, Elijah, and Elisha.
Section 1: The Character of the Caller
A mentor is, first and foremost, a servant. In the Assemblies of God tradition, we emphasize that every believer is empowered by the Holy Spirit for service (Acts 1:8). This means that mentorship is not reserved for the "elite" or the "perfect." It is for the available.
The heart of a mentor is defined by intentionality. You don't accidentally disciple someone; you choose to invest. This choice stems from a heart that values people over programs and maturity over activity. As we see in the cycle below, the goal is always multiplication.
Key Heart Postures:
Love First: Mentorship begins with a heart that loves people enough to walk with them through their messes, not just fix their problems.
Truth in Love: A mentor must have the courage to speak the hard truths of Scripture, but always with the grace of the Gospel.
Spirit-Dependence: We recognize that only the Holy Spirit can transform a heart. A mentor’s job is to plant and water, but God gives the growth (1 Corinthians 3:6).
Section 2: The Paul-Timothy Model: Spiritual Fatherhood
The relationship between Paul and Timothy is perhaps the most profound example of mentorship in the New Testament. Paul didn't just give Timothy a handbook; he gave him his life.
When Paul writes to Timothy, he calls him his "true son in the faith" (1 Timothy 1:2). This is the heart of spiritual fatherhood and motherhood. It involves:
Life-on-Life Learning: Timothy watched Paul preach, but he also watched Paul suffer. He saw Paul’s doctrine, but he also saw Paul’s character under pressure.
Vulnerability: Paul was honest about his struggles, which gave Timothy the permission to be honest about his own fears and "frequent ailments."
Entrustment: Paul didn't keep Timothy in his shadow forever. He sent him into difficult ministry assignments, entrusting him with the weight of leadership.
Scripture Reflection: Read 2 Timothy 3:10-11. Notice the list of things Timothy "followed" or "observed" in Paul. It wasn't just his teaching; it was his way of life, purpose, faith, patience, love, and endurance.
Section 3: The Elijah-Elisha Model: The Mantle and the Cost
If Paul and Timothy show us the affection of mentoring, Elijah and Elisha show us the cost and the persistence required.
In 1 Kings 19, Elijah finds Elisha plowing a field and throws his mantle over him. This was a "call to the heart." Elisha’s response was immediate and radical: he burned his plow and oxen. He destroyed his "Plan B."
Mentorship requires a heart that is willing to persevere. When Elijah was about to be taken up to heaven, he repeatedly told Elisha to stay behind. But Elisha refused, saying, "As the Lord lives and as you yourself live, I will not leave you" (2 Kings 2:2).
A mentor’s heart must be willing to stay until the job is done, and a mentee’s heart must be willing to pursue the impartation of the Spirit with everything they have.
Section 4: Practical Application – The Modern Mentor
How does this ancient truth look in your church or family group today? It starts with a simple shift in focus: moving from being a consumer of the Word to being a conduit of the Word.
In our modern context, the heart of a mentor looks like:
Regularity: Consistency is the soil where growth happens.
Accountability: Asking the tough questions about character and secret life.
Prayer: Covering the mentee in prayer, seeking the Spirit’s guidance for their unique gifts.
Mentorship isn't about having all the answers; it’s about pointing to the One who does. It is about helping someone else hear the voice of the Holy Spirit for themselves.
Discussion Questions for Church Family Groups
Reflection: Who was the "Paul" or "Elijah" in your life? What was the most important thing they taught you by their example rather than their words?
Character: Why is it easier to try to "fix" someone’s problems than to "love" them through their process? How does a mentor’s heart guard against becoming controlling?
The Mantle: What are the "plows" in your life that you might need to leave behind to fully embrace the call to mentor or be mentored?
Multiplication: Looking at 2 Timothy 2:2, who are the "faithful people" in your circle right now? Are you intentionally "entrusting" truth to them?
Spirit-Empowerment: How can we ensure our mentoring relationships stay rooted in the power of the Holy Spirit rather than just human wisdom or "good advice"?
Closing Reflection and Prayer
Take a moment of silence. Ask the Holy Spirit: "Is there someone You want me to invest in?" and "Is there someone I need to ask to invest in me?"
A Mentor’s Prayer: Lord, give me a heart that beats with Your love for others. Help me to see people not as projects, but as Your children destined for purpose. Give me the humility of Paul, the persistence of Elisha, and the wisdom to speak Your Truth in Love. May my life be a clear reflection of Your Son, so that as I lead others, I am leading them directly to You. Amen.
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What if the person God has called you to mentor is the very person who holds the key to the next great move of the Spirit in your community? Are you willing to burn your plow to find out?
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