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December hits different when you're leading a church. The phone calls multiply, the expectations skyrocket, and somehow you're supposed to orchestrate the perfect Christmas experience while keeping your own family happy and your sanity intact. Sound familiar? Here's what nobody talks about at leadership conferences: most of us are making the same seven mistakes every single holiday season. The good news? These aren't character flaws, they're fixable patterns. And once you spo

Picture this: You're the youngest person in the boardroom, armed with fresh ideas, a heart for God, and the energy to change the world by New Year's Eve. Sound familiar? If you're a young professional trying to lead with faith in the workplace, you've probably discovered that good intentions and a seminary degree don't automatically translate into effective leadership. Christmas is the perfect time to reflect on leadership gifts – not the ones under the tree, but the ones God

Dating during the holidays can feel like navigating a minefield while wearing mistletoe. Between family gatherings where Aunt Martha asks about your love life and the pressure to have a "plus one" for New Year's Eve, it's easy to rush into relationships or ignore red flags just to avoid showing up solo to Christmas dinner. But here's the truth: guarding your heart in Christian dating isn't about building walls, it's about creating healthy boundaries that protect what God has

Picture this: You're at your family's Christmas gathering, and Aunt Martha corners you by the eggnog station. "So, are you dating anyone special?" she asks with that look that says she's already planning your wedding. Meanwhile, your heart feels like it's been through a theological blender, and you're wondering if you're even "guarding" it correctly. If you've ever felt confused about what it actually means to guard your heart, especially during the season when romance feels

Christian leadership isn't just about having the right title or getting people to follow your vision. It's about stewarding the trust that God and your community have placed in you. Yet even the most well-intentioned leaders can fall into patterns that undermine their effectiveness and damage their witness. Whether you're leading a small group, serving on a ministry team, or pastoring a congregation, these seven common mistakes might be holding you back from the leadership im

Let's be honest, most of what's streaming these days is vapid, recycled, and spiritually empty. You finish a series and feel...nothing. Maybe entertained for a second, but definitely not transformed . If you're tired of hollow narratives that leave you feeling drained instead of inspired, it's time to pivot to fiction that actually feeds your soul. Faith-driven fiction isn't just "safe" content with all the edges filed off. It's storytelling that wrestles with real questions,

Family movie night should be a blessing, not a battlefield. Yet how many times have you settled in with popcorn and your kids, only to cringe at unexpected content that made you scramble for the remote? You're not alone. Choosing movies as a Christian parent feels like navigating a minefield sometimes. The world tells us to relax, that "it's just entertainment." But we know better. We know that what enters our children's hearts and minds matters deeply to God, and to us. "Abo

Starting out in Christian leadership feels like standing at the edge of a cliff with wings you've never tested. You're pumped, passionate, and ready to change the world for Christ. But here's the thing nobody tells you: most young leaders crash and burn not because they lack heart, but because they make the same predictable mistakes. After years of coaching emerging leaders and watching ministries rise and fall, I've identified seven critical errors that can torpedo your min

You know that feeling when your faith feels more like a Sunday morning routine than a life-transforming relationship? When your prayers sound like grocery lists and your Bible reading feels like checking boxes? You're not alone, and you're definitely not stuck there. The truth is, millions of Christians are drowning in shallow spirituality: going through the motions while their hearts crave something deeper, something real, something that actually changes how they live Monday

You know that feeling when you look in the mirror and wonder, "Who am I, really?" If you're a Christian, this question can feel even more complex. Saved by grace—yes. Translating that truth into daily identity—often messy. Many believers wrestle with this tension. The encouraging news: these common missteps are fixable with simple, grace-filled shifts. Mistake #1: Treating Christ as a Fashion Statement Instead of Your Foundation Here's the uncomfortable truth: many turn Jes

Growth in Christ should feel like coming home to yourself, not climbing an impossible mountain. Yet many believers find themselves stuck in patterns that actually hinder their spiritual development. The good news? These roadblocks are more common than you think, and they're absolutely fixable. Here are seven mistakes that might be sabotaging your Christian personal growth: and practical ways to turn things around. Mistake #1: Trying to Earn Your Growth Through Willpower Man

Your teenager just spent six hours scrolling last night. While you slept, they consumed content that would make your head spin, connected with strangers across the globe, and made decisions about their identity based on what an algorithm decided to show them. The digital landscape of 2025 isn't just different from when we were teens, it's operating on a completely different planet. As parents, we're navigating uncharted territory where the stakes feel higher than ever, but th

Your faith is falling apart, and everyone around you is acting like that's the worst thing that could happen to you. But what if I told you that your spiritual crisis might actually be the most honest thing you've done in years? What if your questions aren't destroying your faith: they're refining it? I'm Dr. Layne McDonald, and I've walked with hundreds of believers through the messy, painful, beautiful process of spiritual deconstruction. Some emerge stronger. Some walk awa

Your teenager just showed you a viral TikTok that has 50 million views. It's funny, clever, and everyone at school is talking about it. But something feels off. Your spirit is unsettled, yet you can't put your finger on why. Sound familiar? Welcome to the new battlefield of Christian parenting, where viral content moves faster than wisdom, and our kids are consuming messages that shape their worldview before we even know what hit them. Dr. Layne McDonald has coached hundreds

Your 14-year-old just added 47 new songs to their playlist overnight. Your car speakers are now pumping lyrics you've never heard before, and something in your spirit feels... off. Sound familiar? Here's the truth that most Christian parents won't say out loud: we're losing the battle for our kids' hearts, one song at a time. Music isn't just background noise, it's a discipleship tool. And right now, the world is doing a better job discipling our teens than we are. But what i

Church leadership isn't just about having the right title or sitting in the right meetings. It's about stewarding God's people with wisdom, humility, and genuine care. Yet too many well-intentioned leaders find themselves making critical mistakes that undermine their effectiveness and hurt the very people they're called to serve. After years of coaching church leaders and witnessing both spectacular successes and painful failures, I've identified seven recurring mistakes that

Your teenager just added another song to their playlist. The bass drops, the melody hooks you, and suddenly you're wondering: "Should I be concerned about this?" Music shapes hearts, minds, and souls more than we realize. Every beat, every lyric, every message flowing through those earbuds is forming your family's worldview. As Christian parents and teens navigating today's music landscape, we need practical tools to discern what builds faith versus what tears it down. Dr. La

Your teenager just showed you a hilarious TikTok that's gotten 50 million views. Your eight-year-old is obsessed with a YouTube channel that all their friends watch. Your family group chat is buzzing with the latest meme that everyone's sharing. Sound familiar? Welcome to the wild world of viral content, where trends explode faster than we can evaluate them. As Christian families, we want to stay connected with culture without compromising our values. But how do we know if th

Walking into a church for the first time takes courage. More courage than most of us remember. Think about it: a visitor doesn't know where to park, where the bathrooms are, where to sit, or whether anyone will even acknowledge they exist. Their palms might be sweaty. Their kids might be fussy. And somewhere in the back of their mind, they're wondering if they made a mistake showing up at all. Your greeter team stands at the intersection of that anxiety and the love of Christ

You didn't sign up for leadership because it looked easy. You stepped into it because you sensed a calling: a pull toward something bigger than yourself. Maybe it was a nudge from the Holy Spirit. Maybe someone saw potential in you before you saw it in yourself. But somewhere between the vision and the execution, things got complicated. Meetings piled up. Expectations multiplied. And slowly, almost invisibly, the way you lead started drifting from where it began. Here's the g